How to Manifest Love Quickly: 7 Steps
Finding true love can seem like an impossible task. It isn't! These 7 simple steps will help you manifest love quickly.
- Manifesting love quickly requires you to work on yourself first and foremost.
- Instant love manifestation is a myth, but there are legitimate ways to speed it up.
- Follow the steps in this article to start manifesting love fast.
To compile this article, I devoured dozens of hours of manifestation content. I listened to all the gurus, watched more YouTube videos than I dare to admit, and read every other type of resource I could get my hands on.
Some of it was helpful, some of it not as much.
That’s why I’m compiling the best love manifestation tactics I found on my journey into one easy-to-follow article. Apply these principles today to manifest love in your life, starting now.
While there are many different methods to how to manifest love quickly, I found the steps below to be the most effective.
Believe that love is possible for you
The very first step to manifesting love quickly is getting rid of your limiting beliefs related to love.
Limiting beliefs in general occur when our mind is protecting itself from pain and disappointment by narrowing down the possibilities for us. In some ways, this is necessary because if we believed that everything was possible for us in every area of life, then we would constantly be getting our hopes up and be disappointed all the time.
But limiting beliefs also narrow down the things that are possible for us in areas where we do want to believe more possibilities are available, like love.
And of course, this emotional narrowing can lead to having trouble believing that love is possible for you at all!
So, how does one get rid of those limiting beliefs and start to believe that love is indeed possible for them?
The first step is, of course, identifying what kinds of limiting beliefs you have developed about love and seeing if there are any connections between them. If you can’t think of anything off the top of your head, there are a lot of lists online of common limiting beliefs about love, so you can check those out for some ideas.
Some common limiting beliefs about love that people have include:
- I am not good enough
- I don’t deserve love
- Love is hard to find
People who believe these things end up having a lot of trouble believing that love is possible for them.
So once you have an idea about what kinds of limiting beliefs you might have, the next step is going to be doing some self-reflection and looking at the source or sources of those beliefs.
For example, if you believe that you are not good enough, then ask yourself why you believe that. Is there a person from your past who told you that? If they did, then this is their perspective and it doesn’t really have anything to do with you.
If it’s not a specific person from your past, then what kind of messages about love are present in the society and culture where you live? Are there a lot of love songs or movies that highlight the pain of being single? Is it difficult to meet people where you live, so you are more likely to get into one-sided relationships?
These kinds of things can have an effect on us, whether we are aware of them or not. So take some time to be mindful about what you see and hear in your daily life, because it does end up having an impact on how you believe that love is possible for you.
The next step is, obviously, changing your perspective and getting rid of those limiting beliefs. It takes time, but just being aware of your limiting beliefs is usually enough to heal you.
From now on, every time you feel unworthy of love, your mission is to remind yourself that you are dealing with a limiting belief. Something that is, ultimately, not based on facts.
Be grateful for the love already present in your life
If you look enough, you CAN find love in your life. Even if you consider yourself the loneliest person in the world, there is love present in your life.
If you truly have no human contact in your life, think of the gift given you by The Universe – the very fact that you are a living, breathing human being. Life is a gift. A gift of love. From time to time, become aware of the fact that your consciousness is something truly amazing. Just becoming aware of this fact will make you feel loved by the very Universe.
The above example was simply to show you that love is always in your life. It is safe to say that most of us do have some human contact in our lives. This makes gratitude even easier to practice.
Romantic love is just one form of love. To feel loved, you do not have to have romance in your life. Instead, think about the unconditional love your parents have for you. Think about the love your friends have for you. Think about the times your community or your colleagues have helped you.
The Universe and humans are good-willed by nature. Let this universal benevolence wash over you and become grateful for all of the love you currently have in your life.
Visualize yourself in a happy, healthy relationship
As you began to work with your mindset, you probably already noticed improved feelings of well-being in your daily life.
Well, now is the time to get a bit more specific and start using more concrete tactics for manifesting love into your life. One of the most effective techniques is visualization.
When you visualize, you send out messages to the universe that release powerful energies into your life. You harness the power of universal energy and direct it towards specific goals. Whatever images or symbols you focus on are sent out as messages which are accepted by the universe.
One of the most popular uses for visualization is attracting love, so let’s explore how you can harness the power of visualization for attracting romantic love.
First of all, you can’t force love to happen, but you can open yourself up to allow it into your life. Certain images that help with this are hearts and flowers, or anything that is soft and loving. You also need to stay positive – don’t think about past loves or relationships that have gone wrong.
Don’t think about what you want from a relationship, but rather how you can give love unconditionally. Think of yourself as a spiritual being that is supported by the universe, not as an individual that needs another person to feel complete. Visualize a healthy relationship with unconditional love and a commitment to growth.
Acknowledge all the positive aspects of a romantic relationship – emotional depth, warmth, mutual respect, and so on. In a nutshell, try to keep your focus on what you want rather than what you don’t have or what’s missing from your life.
Commit to visualizing love for at least 15-minutes a day. During this time, forget about multitasking – find a quiet place, get comfortable, and allow yourself to immerse yourself in the image of an ideal relationship.
Release your negative thoughts and attitudes about love
The mind has a tendency to hold onto its patterns and habits, even if they are not helping us live happy and fulfilling lives. Basically, our thoughts about romantic relationships could block us from experiencing complete happiness in all that we do, especially when it comes to love.
Our thoughts about love oftentimes become more like judgments rather than reflections on what healthy love should actually look like. Thus, we deprive ourselves of learning and understanding what love truly is, which could possibly result in subconsciously sabotaging our relationships because they might not fit our “perfect” standards.
Letting go of our unrealistic expectations about love is the key to experiencing what it’s like to live without any kind of resentment or judgment.
In order to let go of negative thoughts about love, we must first be able to identify the reasons why we hold onto them so tightly. Once we have an idea of why we are not free from our own self-created prisons, then the next step would be to make a conscious effort to change these ways of thinking and being about love. It takes work, but it is easier than you might think.
Another great way of letting go of negativity towards love is to stop comparing your relationships to those of other people. Love is an intense emotion that everyone feels differently, so all comparisons are useless in the first place.
These kinds of judgments only separate you from the possibility of experiencing true love for yourself.
In a nutshell, watch out for two things – comparing your relationships to those of others and negative attitudes towards love. Remember when we got rid of those pesky limiting beliefs? Do the same thing for your negative attitudes about love. First, become aware of them, and then try to consciously shift your thinking.
Take care of your mind and body
When we have a negative attitude towards love, we also often harbor unconscious resentment against life itself. We forget to take care of the single most important relationship of our lives – the relationship we have with ourselves.
To be open to love, you need to take care of yourself, both mentally and physically. Self-care would be a subject that could easily fill thousands of pages, but I’ll keep it short for now.
When it comes to mental self-care, there are two simple practices that have a nearly 100% success rate of improving the daily well-being of a person. These practices are mindfulness and meditation. Both of these spiritual practices are great for decreasing daily stress and improving your overall mood.
As helpful as spiritual practices are, sometimes a certified mental health professional is needed. If you recently went through severe mental trauma, do not hesitate to seek help. You are not ready for love if your mental health is not taken care of.
When it comes to taking care of your body, I suggest you start slow. You do not need to become a massive fitness enthusiast to improve your body.
Drink more water every day, improve your sleeping patterns, walk more, and try to eat more organic food.
Steps like this do not require massive effort, yet they make a huge difference. Treat your body like a sacred temple, because this is exactly what your body is.
Spend time with people who make you feel loved
I know, I know. You are busy. Well, who isn’t? My to-do list is always massive, ALWAYS!
Still, I always prioritize spending time with people who love me. Always! It requires constant work – sometimes I literally force myself to visit my family and my best friends. I feel tired, anxious, and swamped with work…but I still go…and guess what? I am always glad I did.
There is something so energizing about spending time with people who genuinely want the best for you. It gives you that special spark, that glow that everyone will notice.
This is precisely why it is important to surround yourself with love – it comes with a chain effect. As you absorb the love from your friends and family, you will also radiate more love yourself.
This, in return, will make you more attractive to potential romantic partners.
Practice self-love every day
This last step is like a conclusion to everything that came before it. Your task here is to make self-love a habit. Think of yourself as the most important person in your life, because this is exactly who you are.
“Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping.” – These words from the superstar clinical psychologist Jordan Peterson are more than appropriate here.
Use all of the steps previously outlined in this article and love yourself on a daily basis. If you truly care for yourself with all your heart and spirit, love will find a way into your life soon enough.
That’s it! These are the main practices of self-love that I recommend to help you manifest love quickly.
If you can commit to practicing these steps on a daily basis, you will be well on your way to attracting a loving partner into your life.
Remember, love is an energy and it starts with you. So start radiating love today and see what happens! You just might be pleasantly surprised to see how fast a new partner will find a way into your life!